To Nick.....hmmmmm....I feel as if I should give you some sort of credit.....after all I am naming my entire web page after something you said to me.  Although these comments almost made me cry and although you didn't mean them in some sick way they have managed to stick in my head...weirdness.....well anyway...I have no idea where you are and you never write me anymore (although I will forgive for that).  I do hope that you stumble onto this page and sarcastically smirk at all of this...and i am sure you will tell me you hate it but I know you will be lying when you do....i am stating to be able to tell when that white flag of yours is flying....anyway...time to shut up...love dana